Your RSVP
How to RSVP
Tell the couple who is coming, answer their questions and change your reply later.
Open your personal link, or enter your invite code (see Finding your invitation). Your RSVP shows everyone on your invitation.
Replying
- For each name, choose Attending or Declining.
- For each person attending, fill in anything the couple has asked. Dietary requirements and Allergy severity are always there. The couple may add their own questions, such as a meal choice, children, transport or a song request. Questions marked with an asterisk are required.
- Press Save RSVP. When you see "You're all set.", your reply is saved.
If something still needs an answer, the form points you to it with "Almost there: a few answers above still need attention."
Meal choices
If the couple offers a meal choice, pick one option for each person attending. Your choices go to the kitchen with everyone else's, so the venue knows how many of each dish to prepare.
More than one event
If the couple has added events to your invitation, such as a welcome dinner, an Events section appears below your party. Tap Attending or Declining for each one. These save on their own as you tap, but you still need to press Save RSVP for your main reply.
Add it to your calendar
After saving, press + Add to your calendar to download the date to your phone or computer calendar.
Changing your reply
Open your link again, change anything and press Save RSVP again. The couple always sees your latest reply.
If the couple has set an RSVP deadline, the form closes on that date and shows "RSVPs closed on" the date. After that, contact the couple directly and they can update your reply for you.
Next: your arrival and departure dates and dietary needs.